Many of you know that I spend a lot of time trying to teach people, especially executives, to be cautious about what they say in e-mails, blogs, Facebook and now LinkedIn. My favorite comment is that “one should draft e-mails as if it may some day be an exhibit, because it may in fact be one.” Social media has now facilitated our ability to destroy one’s reputation or harm a company’s brand with a single “send.” Please read the excellent article below from EHS Today. sandy intended the article as a needed reminder that bullying comes in many different forms, but the story also serves as a cautionary tale about social media.
Bullying Is Bullcrap (or, Be a Mentor, Not a Jerk)
Feb. 26, 2014 by Sandy Smith in EHS OutLoud Blog
Bullying takes all shapes and forms, from kids arguing on the playground to employees literally and figuratively duking it out at work. Sometimes, a bully is a person who instead of being a valuable mentor, chooses to humiliate someone looking for help and advice.Here in Cleveland, we just experienced one of the most egregious (and public) cases of bullying I’ve seen in a long time. And it came from a very unlikely source: someone who was purporting to help people secure jobs.
Kelly Blazek is the head of Cleveland Job Bank, a listserv that shares job openings in the marketing communications field. She is considered by many to be a top professional in her field and was named “2013 Communicator of the Year” by the Cleveland Chapter of the the International Association of Business Communicators. In her speech at the event, Blazek said, “I’ve always been a passionate advocate for keeping talent in NE Ohio, and we have so much of it in the region. I want my subscribers to feel like everyone is my little sister or brother, and I’m looking out for them.”
So imagine the surprise of a young marketing professional who was moving back to the Cleveland area when she received this message in response to a request to connect with Blazek on LinkedIn: “We have never met. We have never worked together. You are quite young and green on how business connections work with senior professionals. Apparently you have heard that I produce a Job Bank, and decided it would be stunningly helpful for your career prospects if I shared my 960+ LinkedIn connections with you – a total stranger who has nothing to offer me.”
Blazek went on to tell this young job-seeker (PLEASE CONTINUE READING AT EHS TODAY)